My Baby is Turning One

 My baby is turning one, and my mind is racing like crazy.

I love the boy he’s turning into, but my little baby is no more.

From newborn to toddler happens way too fast. Those first few months they need you constantly, but before you know it, they’re rolling over, crawling, walking, and starting to talk. They grow in independence and begin to play on their own.

Where did the time go?

I love watching his personality shine brighter each day, but I miss the snuggles and endless cuddles. I’ve grown so much in the past year too—it takes a lot to be a parent and to grow through postpartum.

It’s hard to embrace all the change that happens in just 12 months, because time truly feels like a thief. But even as time keeps moving, I’m grateful for every stage—every giggle, every milestone, every moment that’s made me his mama.

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